“How was school?” Now I’m not sure when that happens exactly. But one year along the way in their educational journey–we ask it and they hate it! So what’s a mom to do? I want to find out how their school day went. So I think to come at it from another angle. “What did you learn today?” They hate that even more–bad move Nancy Drew! Ok–so let’s put our heads together. We’re sharp, intelligent women! How hard can it be to unearth from a child how his or her school day went? Pretty hard–if they don’t feel like talking or telling us or both!
Here’s my attempt at cracking the code of teenage silence and getting inside the heads of my high schoolers–I confess–I use humor and I do my best to not ask questions when they first get home but confess again that I don’t always succeed.
I try to save questions like, “Do you have any homework?” till after they’ve had time to get in the front door, eat something and relax for a few minutes. The more space I give and the more accessible I am, the greater the potential there is for them to open up and talk when they’re ready. They’d probably prefer if I just text them instead!! Not likely! It’s just a thought–can’t wait to hear yours! Wishing you a great school year!!